Why LIMRI?

Bible and ringsThe LIMRI is an online inventory that measures friendship and shared values in dating, engaged and marriage relationships.The LIMRI reports range from communication, conflict resolution, parenting, personal characteristic and finances (over 20 specific areas of a relationship). Each report will help couples to identify:

  • Relationship Strengths.
  • Areas where couples agree that improvement is needed.
  • Areas where couples disagree with each other.

Couples are asked to agree or disagree with statements that describe their relationship. Examples include:

  • I am a good listener
  • My spouse is a good listener
  • I resolve conflicts quickly
  • My fiance resolves conflicts quickly
  • I pray with my spouse regularly
  • I pray with my spouse regularly

These statements are based on Biblical principles and healthy relationship practices. Personalized worksheets are generated based upon each person’s answers. There are three different types of worksheets:

  • Strength Worksheets – These worksheets allow couples to identify behaviors that are in agreement with Biblical principles and healthy relationship practices. Couples discuss how these strengths bless and enhance their relationship
  • Improvement Needed Worksheets – These worksheets are generated when each person asks for improvement from his/her spouse/partner. One example of this is when the woman and man disagree with the following statements: “I am a good listener and “My spouse is a good listener.”
  • Disagreement Worksheets – These worksheets are generated when couples disagree with the statements or with each others view. One example is the man agrees with the statement “I am quick to forgive my spouse/partner” but the woman disagrees with the statement “My spouse/partner is quick to forgive me.”

Each worksheet includes:

  • Bible Verses
  • Principles
  • Discussion Questions
  • Practical Applications
  • Questions for the couple to ask each other (The “Two Questions”)
  • Questions for the coach to ask the couple

CoupleThe LIMRI worksheets and growth plans allow couples to celebrate their strengths and improve their friendship shared values scores by completing Improvement Needed or Disagreement Worksheets.