​Frequently Asked Questions

Life In Motion Relationship Resources trains pastors, counselors and couples to become facilitators of the LIMRI and Coach Model. The mission of Life In Motion Relationship Resources is to empower churches, counselors and Christian organizations to serve as resource centers in their community to married, engaged and dating couples. Use the Contact Us Button or look at the Information tab to read more about training.

Currently, couples can take the LIMRI, if their church or counselor has an account with Life In Motion Relationship Resources. However, in the near future, we will be offering couples an opportunity to benefit from taking a LIMRI. Couples will go to the “Store” tab and purchase an inventory. They will receive a summary report, worksheets and growth plans. Use the contact us button for any questions about getting access to a LIMRI.

This combination will always generate a Strength Worksheet.

This combination will not generate a Strength Worksheet. The man and woman agree that bitterness is not occurring in their relationship. They are simply not bitter toward one another. No worksheet is warranted in this case.

This combination will not generate a Strength Worksheet. The man and woman must both agree with the statement and with each other’s view. In the above statement, the man indicates that he needs to improve, but his wife says no improvement is needed. Even though the woman and man both agree that no improvement is needed for her, they disagree with each other’s view over the man’s view of himself.

This combination will always generate an Improvement Needed Worksheet.

Generally, this combination will only generate an Improvement Needed Worksheet for the woman. She said improvement was needed and the man indicated that improvement was needed (C). Even though the man said he needed to improve, his wife/partner did not ask for improvement from him. It is important to remember that certain worksheets like this one will generate two questions for the man based on his self-view that improvement needed.

This combination will always generate a Disagreement Worksheet.

Generally, this combination will only generate a Disagreement Worksheet for the woman. The woman’s self- view indicates no improvement needed, but the man is asking her to improve (C). Even though the man said he needed to improve, the woman said no improvement was needed from him (B). The two questions will be directed toward the woman. She will ask her husband, “What can I do to be a better listener while you are talking to me?” and “How can I make it better for you?” Then she will ask him to give one or two examples. This combination will always generate a Disagreement Worksheet.

There are certain worksheets where the man and/or woman indicate an Improvement Needed self-view, but not an Improvement Needed view of their spouse/partner. In the example here, the man and woman both indicate he/she needs to improve in this area. The worksheet will ask the man and woman, “What is triggering your bitterness toward your spouse?” The worksheet does not being with “woman asks man” or “man asks woman” because their spouse did not ask for change.

You should access your purchased inventories and videos through the Life In Motion Relationship Resources site. Once you have signed in to your account on this site, you will see menu entries under the Shop main menu item for Purchased Inventories and Media Purchases. Clicking on the appropriate link will take you to a summary page which will show all of your purchases with links to access them online. You may also access these links while on the Shop/My Account page.

The email address you used to register on this site is your sign in name.

If you have forgotten your password, you can reset it through the site. First, lick on the Sign In link at the top-right of every page. At the bottom of the resulting popup, you will see a Forgot your password? link you should click on. You will be asked to enter your email for your account. You will receive then receive an email that will contain a link that you should copy/paste into a web browser. The resulting webpage will let you enter a new password for your account.

You can change your password, name or addresses by going to the Shop/My Account link in the main menu. On the resulting page, you will see a link for View/edit Profile in the left sidebar. Clicking on this will allow you to change your name, how your name is displayed, and your password. If you want to change your address, click on the View/edit Addresses in the left sidebar.