Identity – Every believer has been transformed into the image of Jesus. The theological word is: incarnational – You are his feet, hands, mouth (words) and love reaching out to your spouse, family, friends, coworkers and world.

Purpose of every woman – The primary purpose of a woman before marriage is to glorify God in everything she does or says or accomplishes, and to be an expression of divine love, grace, mercy and justice to everyone.

Purpose of every man – The primary purpose of a man before marriage is to glorify God in everything he does or says or accomplishes, and to be an expression of divine love, grace, mercy and justice to everyone. Men and women share the same identity and purpose.

Purpose of every wife – The primary responsibility of a wife is to glorify God in everything she does or says or accomplishes, and to be an expression of divine love, grace, mercy and justice to everyone; especially to her husband.

Purpose of every husband – The primary responsibility of a husband is to glorify God in everything he does or says or accomplishes, and to be an expression of divine love, grace, mercy and justice to everyone; especially to his wife.

The common identity and purpose of men and women allows them to form divine partnerships that glorifies God in everything they say, do, or accomplish and to be an expression of divine love, grace and mercy to everyone and especially for each other. Couples that learn how to validate and support each others identities and purposes will find intimacy, commitment and sacrificial love in abundance in his/her marriages.